I love to drive my car. I do not love to drive it when there are other people in it, as I find their jittery feedback annoying. But when I am alone, I am in my sanctuary, my office, my panic room, my carriage.
As we walk around all day—whether or not we are conversing with others—there is a constant internal dialogue going on. Frequently with females, it involves noting some imperfection about themselves.
My friend Elizabeth was swimming to raise money for cancer; I was hanging out in the event T-shirt, eating a free granola bar, and trying to look like I was getting in the water. “Let’s go to Ikea tomorrow,” she said as she headed off to the water’s edge in a sea of yellow swim caps. “Sure,” I said, not realizing that I had just jumped down the rabbit hole.
2013 is skidding sideways onto the tarmac, knocking our luggage around a little but bringing us home safe. Each year carries with it the foibles and triumphs of another chronological age. It marks the morphing of four more seasons and brings reflection on the times that have shaped my life for those 526,600 minutes.
As I had been advised, it was the middle of the month, middle of the week, and after 2 p.m. when I stepped into the lobby of the Jefferson County Courthouse. To my right was the scanner like they have at the airport, and as the courtly, elderly gentleman took my briefcase, I wondered why everyone complained about this place; it seemed to me to be a beacon of calm policy and order.
Alison Page was a dance kid. Raised in the South, her mother ran her through the typical litany of extracurricular activities: ice skating, gymnastics, piano, horseback riding… soccer ended with her furiously asking her mother why they just wouldn’t give her the ball, and at tennis she would pirouette with every backhand. Alison, it appeared, was born to dance.
If what we said mattered as much as what we did, we would all edit. by Cherri Ellis Remember when Facebook was just Facebook? When you used it to share the occasional witty observation, or pictures of a certain group of people to a certain group of people? Now I log on (which I do… Read More
Every soup needs a good stir now and then. by Cherri Ellis Platters are such festive and hopeful objects. That is why I collect them. My friend Kathy gave me one for my birthday that was huge and square and glossy black with abstract cherries painted across it. When your name is Cherri, you will… Read More
Tomorrow’s answers for today’s questions. By Cheri Ellis There was a boy I knew in college named Blaine. I met him the year I transferred to Wright State from Denison University, a tiny private college where I had a partial theater scholarship, the remainder of which wasn’t paid off till I was 31 years old…. Read More
Whether it’s a Christmas Eve construction project or a second job to make college a reality, great dads do what it takes. by Cherri Ellis Twenty-one years ago, while driving to Brookwood Hospital to have my daughter, it was very peaceful in the car. Since she was a frank breach baby, there was none of… Read More
Dance like no one is watching (except they are). by Cherri Ellis Quite recently, I had an epiphany on my sofa. It had been a particularly grueling workday, and I was slabbed on the couch in a way that required zero effort to support my own body weight. My empty dinner plate was on the… Read More